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ghetto date
So. I went out on a date last night. I used his bathroom. He had no soap in the bathroom. No soap in the kitchen. So I asked for soap. He had a bottle of dish soap underneath the sink that I used. The last man I dated had no soap in his bathroom. He had dish soap only in his kitchen. I'm not sure what's up with these dudes, but I am not on board! I'm proud of myself for asking for soap during last night's date. It's a small thing, but it does show assertiveness. And cleanliness. This guy had a bookshelf of books, but also playboys. Instant turn off for me. He lives in MacArthur Park -- the ghetto one. He works MWF at a school in Alh0mbr@. He has no car. He wants to be a simple dude. One of the common folk. He is very into politics. The more I reflect, the less I like him. As with most of these dudes I date...he's not a bad guy, but I don't want to date him, either. Reasons I don't like him: - no soap - playboy, ugh - has almost no ambition - very into politics; boasted about his intelligence - way too touchy feely - on the dance floor, in the bar, and at his apartment - his bed was twin sized, and his couch tiny - he said "you're a woman of substance," when I didn't want to be touchy feely with him. All that says to me is that a woman who is sexual quickly HAS NO SUBSTANCE in his mind. And that's really fucking lame. - he says he and his wife broke up because due to his income, she treated him as "just a little person." I have a feeling there's way more to that story he's not including. - he was embarrassing to be around in the bar, but I was supportive anyway...whatcha gonna do? Be a jerk to your date? That's not my style. - I can see how in the future, he will resent my career, and I will in turn resent his. It was like this with R, too. Teachers sometimes feel they are high and mighty because they are doing a service for society; they sometimes devalue people working in entertainment, thinking it doesn't matter. Reasons I like him: - he seems harmless (but again...way too touchy feely) - he isn't INSANELY ambitious - fun to dance with, when he gives me space - good recommendation of a bar - isn't afraid to live in a dodgy neighborhood; not racist - his place was fairly clean - reasons to like him are few and far between, frankly...
2:08 pm - Tuesday, Apr. 26, 2022
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